So you have been dating for a few weeks or months,
it is going well, you feel you are creating a good bond.
but there is one thing that bothers you,
he doesn’t compliment you enough.
At the beginning he did say how good you look,
commented about the nice dress you wore etc’,
but even then, it wasn’t much.
Your best friends don’t think it is a big deal, one of them said:
“some men are just not too flirtatious , that’s just who they are.
Your other best friend said that you should let it go –
“This is a sign for insecurity, you don’t need him to asurre you
of your looks…”
You listen to them, but you know it is not about that.
You know you look great, you know it is more than that,
it is about something else.
But what is that something else?
I will tell you,
That “something else” feels important to you
and for a very good reason.
That “something else” is like a headache.
But like you know, a headache is just a syndrome.
Maybe you didn’t drink enough water,
maybe you are under a lot of stress.
There are many other possible reasons for getting a headache.
So yes, this is a sign for something else which is wrong.
you see, both of us know that getting compliments from him
isn’t what you are really missing in your life.
So what is it?
I’ll explain, and then you will see why it bothers you so much.
and it should.
A complement for a woman is, as far as a man knows,
is first and foremost an act of courting.
When a man compliments a woman
he knows he is courting her.
By doing so he wants to make her feel good,
feel smart, feel beautiful, feel wanted,
feel attractive and more…
He is not doing it for nothing.
It is true that men tend to compliment women
more at the beginning of a relationship,
this is happening for a very good reason –
The man knows and feels he still doesn’t have the woman.
She isn’t “his” yet.
And so, when the relationship progress, and he feels assured of it,
courting descends in correlation to his security in the relationship.
Sad, i know.
Most man don’t have the discipline
to continue courting once they start
feeling “safe” in the relationship.
Most men are also not aware
of the importance of courting for women,
but a bigger problem here is that when a man
stops courting you in such an early stage
of the relationship (a few weeks into the relationship )
it basically means that he takes you for granted.
He doesn’t see a real reason to keep courting.
It feels redundant for him.
But there is another point to it,
Men tend to flutter a woman not only when
in the courting phase,
but also when they feel stressed…
what kind of stress?
Stress that they might loos you.
When they feel this way they start buying you gifts,
Complimenting you…they try to
make sure you will be happy with them.
But what makes him fear of loosing you?
What makes a man so interested in you
that he actually bites on every hint you
throw out in the air (things he can do for you
that makes him think will make you happier with him by doing them..?)
What can make a man fall for you?
What to know more about what kind of a woman men are looking for?
What in her behavior makes her so attractive to men?
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